Tomorrow is something unique to New Iberia, Louisiana: Beneath the Balconies. This delightful afternoon is filled with music and a stroll down the town’s historic Main Street, from one balcony to the next as a series of musical and entertainment vignettes are presented. I’ve attended as a guest/audience member before, and tomorrow I will be singing on the balcony at the Shadows-on-the-Teche in honor of my late brother-of-the-heart and music partner, Joshua “Bubba” Murrell. With the exception of one song at his memorial service back in December, it will be the first time I have sung any of “our” repertoire in public, with the prerecorded tracks, in public since his death. *Deep breath*
I’ll be honest – for a while, I didn’t feel much like singing. (If you know me, you know that is HIGHLY unusual.) What was the point? I couldn’t make it through Christmas Eve. This past year has been a beast, with losing Bubba and then mom. Prayer, meditation, and music have gotten me through.
Yes, the “not singing” didn’t last very long. Our friends “across the street” at First Methodist Church invited our choir to join them for a Lenten musical presentation, Dubois’ The Seven Last Words of Christ. This was what I sorely needed to take my mind (and soul) elsewhere. Then, invitations began arriving. “Would you sing for this?” When God can’t seem to get my attention in other ways, God knows that music will always do the trick.
My Creator put something inside of me that won’t be denied. A decent voice, and the drive to train it, practice, use it, and always search for improvement. People sometimes say “oh, what a gift!” Well, the gift is what God gave you in your vocal cords, and remember, God gave that to pretty much everyone. What you do with it is your gift to God. And you know what? God gave EVERYONE things that they love to do, and are halfway-decent-to-pretty-good at. We don’t all have to be “the best” at anything, but “the best I can be” and “better than I was before” brings a lot of joy.
What we choose to focus on to make better, to share…that is our gift to our families, our friends, our communities, our churches. I know some women who are amazing quilters and stitchers (I, on the other hand, would rather go to the dentist than sew anything). My sister-in-law makes incredible artwork in the form of metalworking and jewelry. My husband enjoys fishing, hunting, and always saying “yes” when a friend says “we gotta cook breakfast for this retreat group, you in?” Others have the gift of total listening and acceptance. Too often we look at what we feel we can’t do (or aren’t “good enough” at) instead of what we CAN.
This is, perhaps, what life truly is all about. It’s not always those mountaintop experiences or making huge ripples in the fabric of society, justice and change. More often, it’s regular everyday people who do what they love to do and use it to make someone else’s day a little easier. Tomorrow there will be dozens of people involved in performing, volunteering, cooking, cleaning and serving, and everyone will have fun.
Sometimes we forget that these simple things are most important. Social media can make us feel inferior, small, unseen. We see “influencers” who appear to be shaping the tastes and habits of others. (is it just me, or does anyone else find the fact that we now have an actual noun that describe people who are like, the grownup version of the Cool Kids?)
However you spend your Sunday, I hope you’ll find some time to do something you love with people you love.







Two different sizes of mailboxes, one sunk inside the other with an insulation of cement. On a 4 x 4, sunk in more concrete. That put an end to joyriders with baseball bats. Can’t y’all respect other people’s property? And isn’t destroying mailboxes against some federal regulation?
There’s always work to be done here, but pleasures and rewards are many. I walk to work in the morning to the song of birds and the view of the pond (with or without gator), with occasional egrets, blue herons or ducks
These are precious sights that keep me grounded and make me laugh about things like the gator and the mailbox.










































